About Ian
Ian was a funny, loving son, dad and friend. There is never a day when he is not thought about by many. At his funeral the church was packed. It is a testament to a young man who made his family proud.
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Sadly, Ian, like a lot of other young people had complex trauma. Some of these traumas were hidden by Ian himself for many years and these internalised thoughts proved to be a major factor in his passing.
Problems can be caused by both chemical imbalances in the brain, physical issues or through traumatic events. Ian had problems of ADHD and other issues in his life which caused so much pain - pain he could not erase.
There will be others like Ian, please if you think a friend or loved one is in trouble, listen to them and try to help. Sometimes all it needs is an ear. Never give up on them.
Likewise there will be others like us, trying to cope with an empty void in our lives. The worst thing a grieving friend or relative needs is for their own friends to shy away for fear of saying the wrong thing. Support is so badly needed and we have made it our mission to always be there for those in crisis.